Erlang generator improvements

[kpy3]

Add some minor improvements to Erlang generator:

• Mark records generated from union as 'union' instead of 'struct'
• Allow choose type for string, can be 'string', 'binary' or 'both' (default)
• Allow sets to be initialised with new(fast) backend (default is old)

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